1.The real killer.
All too often we don’t think we are worthy of the things we desire. Sometimes we think we don’t know enough and we have to keep chasing new degrees and certifications. Sometimes we think that no matter how much learning, we just aren’t smart enough.
Stop that right now. Whenever you get these kinds of thoughts, remember more often than not we underestimate our abilities. It’s just how our brains are wired. You may be doubting how smart and worthy you are, but know that the people around you are most likely more than happy to have you at the table. Shake it off and remind yourself of your worth.
2. I have to prove myself to my parents, my friends, and my community in order to feel successful.
It is so natural to want to live up to the expectations of the people that matter to us. We want to show our parents that we can be successful. We can’t help but compare ourselves to our friends. And we want our communities to be proud of us.
But here’s the thing: the best way to prove yourself to others is to excel on your own terms. Find your passion, and focus on finding work that is fulfilling and challenging to you. You set the terms. When others see how happy and engaged you are in your life and work, they’ll know you are doing something right.
3. I don’t have a superpower that sets me a part from others.
Yes, you do! It’s all a matter of finding out what you do better than anyone else. Each of us lives a life full of unique experiences. The way you personally approach the world lends you specific strengths and skills.
Don’t believe me? I don’t blame you. Even though your superpower might be right under your nose, it’s often hard to recognize it in ourselves without a little outside help. It might take a little work, but in time you can unleash your genius.
4.I am not passionate about anything.
Finding your passions and your purpose in this world is what life is all about. All it takes is a decision from you to make it a priority. If you feel passionless, it means you’re probably stressed out. Don’t give up, and in the meantime, make it a passion to find your purpose.
The main think I want to say is just feel your power and use truely with positivity.
Be brave, be positive. Because u can and you really will get your goal.